unresolved home issues

one of the sunnah of huzoor s.a.w. was when someone came to him with problems,he would also ask others for information and do mashwera
as one gets older ..im 45,you realize,people carry emotional baggage,from broken relationships,parent and sibling issues etc

if these primary issues remain unresolved they carry over into other fields and circles of ones life.

many are not aware of this,psychology and sociology are misunderstood in islam.
unfortunately nowadays islam has been reduced to a few physical actions and outer garments

the science of tasawwuf is human psychology from the core
each and every individual needs advice and a mentor
for those who lack these, usually end up in cycles of transferring baggage from them self to others without tackling the root cause.

issues with exes,parents,old rivalries and relationships must be patched up and healed for one to progress spiritually .
if one is unable to do this,then at least let things go and do not project your rage and frustrations onto innocent third parties
this is inappropriate and unfair.

it is very easy to copy paste islamic texts
the real challenge is to apply these texts to our lives



AND ALLAH KNOWS BEST