Naseeha on marriage

Assalamu alaykum,

I would have posted in the sisters section but i don't have enough numbers to able to have access to it. I know that in married life is full of ups and downs but whatever the case we say Alhamdulillah.
I would like to get tips from married sisters and brothers if they want to. How the wife and husband compromise to keep each other happy. I have come to the point in life where once i trusted someone for the first time in life, now that trust is fading slowly back to where I only trusted Allah. How do you deal with a husband who is finding difficult to understand you over a simple matter where you as a wife done
everything to please him, well I hope the wife did everything to please him.
There are many issues in my life at the moment, and I would like to speak to a wise, humble sister and ask her opinion on these matters
before I make a mistake, therefore I wont post these matters up as its not wise to do so.
Hope you can help, my closest friend is Allah and I have spoke to Allah about these things, I am waiting for Allah
response, while I am waiting I thought maybe my sister can help me too. I hope I didn't waste any of your time, but at the moment am just looking at the clear night sky waiting for the answer to shine.

Wasalam