Bismillahir Rahmanir Raheem
I have a proposal, everything is ok about him Alhamdu Lillah. My parents have asked me, I hav to decide in the light of Quran and Sunnah.There are some points which I should tell you in order to get a sincere advice.That brother is ''15 years'' older than me.Lives in UK, he has divorced his wife and has a son of 8 years. the girl was his cousin and after getting nationality she refused to come back to Pakistan.he is the only son of their parents who lives here. she has taken theis divorce and has done nikah with someone.My parents told me to think over it as accidents may happens to anyone in life, it may happen to me or my brother God forbid. I have seen him he seems a nice person. my mother has asked in neighbors and others they praised their family and him. I am ok with his son but 'the age difference' is something which has troubled me a bit. Also there is Hadees,
Narrated Jabir bin 'Abdullah: When I got married, Allah's Apostle said to me, "What type of lady have you married?" I replied, "I have married a matron' He said, "Why, don't you have a liking for the virgins and for fondling them?"
will it be the same for women too? should I consider some other proposal and ignore this one?
I have a proposal, everything is ok about him Alhamdu Lillah. My parents have asked me, I hav to decide in the light of Quran and Sunnah.There are some points which I should tell you in order to get a sincere advice.That brother is ''15 years'' older than me.Lives in UK, he has divorced his wife and has a son of 8 years. the girl was his cousin and after getting nationality she refused to come back to Pakistan.he is the only son of their parents who lives here. she has taken theis divorce and has done nikah with someone.My parents told me to think over it as accidents may happens to anyone in life, it may happen to me or my brother God forbid. I have seen him he seems a nice person. my mother has asked in neighbors and others they praised their family and him. I am ok with his son but 'the age difference' is something which has troubled me a bit. Also there is Hadees,
Narrated Jabir bin 'Abdullah: When I got married, Allah's Apostle said to me, "What type of lady have you married?" I replied, "I have married a matron' He said, "Why, don't you have a liking for the virgins and for fondling them?"
will it be the same for women too? should I consider some other proposal and ignore this one?